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Gene Rosen: The Man Deserves Better

Sandy Hook hero Gene Rosen is taking a lot of criticism. He deserves better.

 

The Newtown tragedy has impacted each of us. We all have opinions. We all want to make sense out of the senseless. Yet we all have the burden of responsible behavior to carry.

Gene Rosen is a friend of my father's. He's also a model citizen who has served this state well. Now, however, Mr. Rosen is being vilified.

Why? Because on the day of the massacre, Mr. Rosen took several scared, would-be victims off of his front lawn and into his home. Some believe this makes Mr. Rosen part of a vast conspiracy. Others think it makes him a publicity hound.

I believe it makes him a hero. Think what Mr. Rosen did that day was self-serving and easy? Think again. I've seen Mr. Rosen since the tragedy. I've been in his house, in the same room where the children were gathered, no less.

He has been profoundly affected (as has his wife) by what happened. The brutal criticism hasn't helped matters, either. A nightmare literally showed up on Mr. Rosen's front lawn and the man did all that he could. For this he is punished by those who nitpick his every word and by those who question the validity of emotions.

The First Amendment rightly allows for us to speak our minds. A sense of responsibility, however, should go hand in hand with that precious right. To go on television or online and to accuse a traumatized grandfather of a heinous crime is a serious matter.

A decent person would present some irrefutable evidence before making such an assertion. When no such evidence exists, however...

I'll close with this: years ago I had a co-worker who was literally becoming unhinged. He spoke to myself and to others of having suicidal and homicidal thoughts. A few of us spoke up. Our supervisors did little or nothing.

Out of frustration, I turned to my father, a long time law enforcement official, for advice. My father subsequently reached out to a man he knew who was an expert on criminal behavior. So concerned was this man that he called back from vacation to offer solid and sound guidance.

That man was Gene Rosen.  

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Maureen shepherd January 17, 2013 at 01:10 pm
I saw Mr Rosen's interview shortly after the shootings...it made me cry! My thought at the time, and right now was "what an awesome person " Being as i live in Michigan i have no idea what is being said about him now but am saddened to hear that hes going through a rough patch! My prayers are with Mr. Rosen and his family! If it were one of my children that Mr. Rosen took in I would be forever greatfull.... thank you Sean for writing about this.
Barbara Jean Mitchell January 17, 2013 at 01:40 pm
Sean proud of you !! So sorry that Mr.Rosen must go through all this nonsense. Mr. Rosen did what any caring human being would do for children. He took them out of Harms Way. I would do the same and would hope others would also. If one of those children were mine ,I would be forever grateful to him. Some people can never see the good and must always look for evil. Maybe if we concentrated more on good we would see it in our neighbors.
Jim Mitchell January 17, 2013 at 07:27 pm
Years ago this man would have been a hero to everyone. Today things have changed. This man is still a hero but today there are always people who find fault in the kindest of acts by others,. This is just another example of how the statements of the extreme minority becomes big news.
Things years ago were not perfect but they were a heck of a lot better than they are today. Much much better. Who is at fault?? WE ALL ARE.
Virginia Wilkos Stafford January 17, 2013 at 09:47 pm
I had no idea he was being criticized for what he had done! I was touched by his story and willingness to comfort the children on that horrible day. Shame on those who think negatively of him and what he had done. Honestly, if any one of us were in his postion that day, wouldn't we have done the same?
Frank Crose January 17, 2013 at 10:54 pm
Sean and I visited with Gene shortly after this horrible senseless mass murder of innocent children. Gene is one of the most decent and compassionate people that I have ever had the privilege of knowing. To see this man slandered by a few obviously demented people is a real travesty.
Remember that a lie that goes unchallanged becomes truth. Sean I can't tell you how proud I am of you for telling the truth in such an eloquent manner. Sean I can't tell you how proud of you for writing about this.
Fred January 18, 2013 at 08:22 am
Next time an article like this may want to contain some of the facts of why folks are upset with Mr. Rosen
Sheila Hine January 19, 2013 at 05:48 pm
Sean how can you post about something that patch.com doesn't even acknowledge as a story? No mention of a article regarding gene rosen at all in any of the online patch publications. if he did something heroic surely there would be an article, can you find one for me on this websites data base?
Teri037 January 20, 2013 at 05:00 am
I've watched every interview that Mr. Rosen gave. I think that what is happening is that his story is not believable. Not that it isn't true, it's just unbelievable. None of it makes sense the way he tells it. The first interview I watched he said the kids were sitting in a circle in his driveway and a man was yelling at them, and then the man disappeared. On another interview he said a lady dropped them off. Then he said a bus driver dropped them off. If in fact a bus driver had these kids and abandoned them in a strangers yard while a mad gunman was on the loose, the bus driver needs to be fired. Also, it makes no sense as to why someone would dump kids off in a strangers yard when the fire station was right there. Mr. Rosen gave so many interviews and he was quite animated. According to Mr. Rosen's story, those are the kids that ran past the gunman (from Ms. Soto's class). Those are the kids that narrowly escaped. Perhaps the school should recognize him for keeping them safe until their parents came to get them. If someone in authority validates his story, then maybe the questions will stop. Until then, Mr. Rosen probably shouldn't seek out the things people are posting. It was a horrible event, and much of what has been aired on the news leaves people saddened, and confused. There were no tears shown on tv. I'm sure there were plenty, but none were shown on the news. It was surreal.
Frank Crose January 20, 2013 at 11:33 pm
Ms Hine,
I suggest you Google Gene Rosen's name and see for yourself the amount of news this story has generated.
Krecks Donna January 21, 2013 at 01:01 am
I would like to see irrefutable evidence of the existence of the bus driver. What is the name of the bus driver? Has any journalist try to interview the bus driver?
Dr. Alfred C. Whitehead January 21, 2013 at 02:31 pm
The Patch is a light weight media source for any type of real news. They are more interested in posting warm and cuddly type of news items rather than cold hard facts. If you need a good recipe for making soup... The Patch is your best source!
Frank Crose January 22, 2013 at 03:35 am
Ms.Hine;
Again I have to differ with you. Sean more than read about Mr. Rosen online. He along with thousands of others watched a number on interviews that were televised about him and what he did on that tragic day.Certainly the Newtown Bee's choice not to publish anything regarding Mr. Rosen does not make Seans article any less relevent.
LongTime Resident January 25, 2013 at 02:25 am
Certainly everyone can have their own opinion. I live in Sandy Hook, not far from the school, and have read many of Ms. Hines comments on the Newtown Patch. Such apparent anger directed specifically at Gene Rosen is strange. I wonder why he is the target of her attacks?
Knowing how his house is situated in relation to the school and the firehouse, and the chaos of that day, it is not hard to believe that a group of young, frightened, confused children with no adult to guide them (since their teacher had been murdered in front of them) wound up in his yard. It is sad to see such meanness directed at anyone after such a horrific event.
Frank Crose January 25, 2013 at 03:43 am
Thank you so very much for your comment..I've known Gene for many years and know what a compassionate caring person he is. I too can't understand why people are attempting to vilify him.
LongTime Resident January 26, 2013 at 03:26 pm
Thanks for a little chuckle on a Saturday morning! I am definitely not Gene Rosen, that is funny! The above link is preposterous and anyone familiar with Newtown will realize this. Good luck to you Ms Hine, I hope you can get over your apparent anger issues and get on with a peaceful life.
T Georges January 28, 2013 at 08:14 pm
www.facebook.com/pages/Gene-Rosen-is-a-Hero-and-We-Support-Him
T Georges January 28, 2013 at 08:14 pm
www.facebook.com/pages/Gene-Rosen-is-a-Hero-and-We-Support-Him/
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